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S.E.L.F. L.O.V.E.

A 24-session transformation for people who feel like they are watching their own life from the sidelines, and are ready to step back in as themselves. Grounded in evidence. Built entirely around you.

24 Sessions
10+ Modalities
17 Resource guides
12 Audio sessions
Begin Your Journey

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✦ Evidence-based methodologies
✦ 12 guided meditations and hypnoses by Elora
✦ 17 downloadable resource guides
✦ Private Skool community access
✦ Voxer/Telegram support between sessions
✦ The MMD Bot: your AI coaching companion

This isn't a programme that tells you who to be.
It is the space where you become who you were always capable of being.

S.E.L.F. L.O.V.E. is a structured, deeply personalised 1:1 coaching transformation drawing from NLP, inner child work, somatic therapy, CBT, hypnotherapy, positive psychology, EFT, and more. Each session builds on the last, moving you through a carefully sequenced journey: from the patterns that have shaped you, to the beliefs that limit you, to the version of yourself that is fully, honestly alive.

The Framework

Every letter is a pillar.
Every pillar is a phase of your becoming.

S.E.L.F. L.O.V.E. is not just the name of this programme. It is the framework that underpins every session, every practice, and every conversation within it.

S01
Self-Awareness
Understanding who you are beneath the masks, the roles, and the stories you inherited.
E02
Emotional Mastery
Building the capacity to feel fully without being swept away, and to use emotion as information.
L03
Lifestyle Alignment
Creating a life that reflects your values, boundaries, and authentic self, not other people's expectations.
F04
Forgiveness & Self-Acceptance
Releasing the weight of resentment and the tyranny of self-judgment, toward yourself and others.
L05
Love as the Foundation
Placing self-love, self-compassion, and genuine care for yourself at the centre of everything you build.
O06
Optimism & Gratitude
Cultivating a realistic, grounded optimism and the neural pathways of gratitude that sustain it.
V07
Vision & Values
Discovering what truly matters to you and building a clear, embodied direction from those roots.
E08
Empowerment & Evolution
Taking inspired, aligned action from a place of inner authority, and continuing to grow beyond the programme.

Methodologies woven throughout the programme

Neuro-Linguistic Programming Inner Child Work Schema Therapy CBT Somatic Therapy Hypnotherapy EFT Tapping Positive Psychology Acceptance & Commitment Therapy Gestalt Therapy Jungian Psychology Mindfulness Motivational Interviewing Energy Psychology EMDR Positive Intelligence

The Transformation Journey

Four distinct phases, each building on what came before.

Phase 1
Seeing Clearly
Sessions 0–4
Mapping where you are, uncovering the blueprint formed in childhood, and beginning to loosen the grip of the beliefs that have been running the show.
Phase 2
Feeling Deeply
Sessions 5–11
Understanding your needs, building emotional fluency, silencing the inner critic, and beginning to discover who you are when you stop performing.
Phase 3
Releasing & Receiving
Sessions 12–19
Setting honest boundaries, integrating your energies, releasing resentment through forgiveness, and opening to gratitude, self-compassion, and love at a subconscious level.
Phase 4
Living It
Sessions 20–24
From insight to aligned action. Anchoring your new identity in the body, building sustainable rhythms, and stepping forward into a life that is genuinely yours.

All 25 Sessions in Detail

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00
Onboarding: Welcome to the Journey
CoachingCBT
Before anything else, we get honest. A clear-eyed look at where you are, what you think, and what you're ready to change.
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A sentence-completion self-reflection worksheet that serves as your entry point into the programme. You'll examine your current thought patterns honestly, notice what you're proud of and what you tend to avoid, and set your intention for what's ahead. Designed to be revisited throughout so you can see how far you've come.

You'll explore
  • Your current beliefs and thought patterns
  • Your confidence baseline, honestly and without harshness
  • What you value and what you avoid
  • Your vision for who you're becoming
01
Clarity: Seeing Where You Are
NLPSomatics🎙️ Meditation
Before you can go anywhere, you need to know where you actually are. Not the version you present to the world. This session builds that honest picture.
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A clear mapping of your life across key areas, combined with the 3 keys to breakthrough. Nervous system regulation begins here, because clarity doesn't just come from the mind. It comes from learning to feel safe enough to look.

You'll explore
  • Your life across key areas: where you are vs. where you want to be
  • The 3 keys to breakthrough
  • Hope and future orientation
  • Somatic regulation and the vagus nerve
02
Discovering the Blueprint
Inner ChildSchema Therapy🎙️ Meditation
Your patterns didn't come from nowhere. This session goes back to the beginning, to the unconscious blueprint formed in childhood, and introduces the Shadow Child and Sun Child within you.
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Based on Stefanie Stahl's groundbreaking work, this session helps you explore the wound-driven patterns of your Shadow Child alongside the joyful, authentic qualities of your Sun Child. This is where we begin to understand the "why" behind the behaviours that keep you stuck.

You'll explore
  • The unconscious blueprint and where your patterns come from
  • Your Shadow Child: wounds, limiting beliefs, defence mechanisms
  • Your Sun Child: authentic self, joy, innate gifts
  • Layer 5 behavioural patterns (Stahl's model)
03
Transforming Limiting Beliefs
Inner ChildNLPBreathwork🎙️ 2 Meditations
The beliefs that hold you back weren't chosen, they were absorbed. This session goes to their origin and begins the work of transforming them, using the body and the imagination as much as the mind.
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Deepening the inner child work through regression, non-dominant hand writing (Lucia Capacchione's approach), NLP perceptual positions, and guided imagery. Two audio meditations anchor the session experientially. Power breathing and somatic practices complete the embodied approach.

You'll explore
  • Limiting beliefs rooted in childhood experiences
  • Regression to the origin of beliefs
  • Non-dominant hand writing as a doorway to the unconscious
  • Inner child dialogue and visualisation for belief transformation
04
Being Free from Limiting Beliefs
CBTEMDRNLP
Knowing where your beliefs came from is one thing. This session gives you a full toolkit for actually releasing them.
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A practical multi-tool session covering cognitive restructuring, Byron Katie's The Work, EMDR, the Option Method, affirmations, and somatic grounding. Different approaches suit different people and different beliefs. This session helps you find your entry points.

You'll explore
  • Cognitive distortions and how to reframe them
  • Byron Katie's The Work: four questions and the turnaround
  • EMDR for belief clearing
  • Self-love affirmations as new neural programming
05
The 6 Human Needs
NLPGestalt🎙️ Meditation
Every behaviour makes sense when you understand the need behind it. This session reveals the six universal human needs driving your choices, patterns, and relationships.
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Introducing Tony Robbins' Six Human Needs model alongside Gestalt's experience cycle of needs. You'll take a full needs assessment, interpret your profile, and begin understanding how unmet needs create your self-sabotage patterns and relationship dynamics.

You'll explore
  • Certainty, Variety, Significance, Love/Connection, Growth, Contribution
  • Your personal needs profile: which are primary, which are unmet
  • How unmet needs drive behaviour and self-sabotage
  • Gestalt experience and needs cycle
06
Releasing Emotions
GestaltSomaticMindfulness🎙️ Meditation
Emotions aren't problems to solve, they're information to receive. This session builds your emotional vocabulary, regulation toolkit, and the capacity to feel without being swept away.
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Moving from emotional awareness to expression to release. You'll connect emotion with body sensation, understand the emotion-cognition link, and use practical tools including STOPP and GRACE for in-the-moment regulation.

You'll explore
  • Emotional awareness and interoception (feeling in the body)
  • The sensations wheel: mapping emotion to physical sensation
  • STOPP technique for mindful pause
  • GRACE model for compassionate emotion management
07
Inner Critic & Your Wise Guide
CBTPositive Intelligence🎙️ Meditation
The inner critic isn't your enemy. It's a frightened protector. This session helps you recognise its voice, understand where it comes from, and introduce the Wise Guide who speaks with much more truth.
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Mapping your Inner Critic's patterns and transforming them by meeting your Wise Inner Guide. Using CBT-based self-talk tools, Transactional Analysis ego states, and Positive Intelligence's Saboteur Assessment to shift your internal dialogue from critical to compassionate.

You'll explore
  • The Inner Critic: its voice, triggers, and hidden purpose
  • Your Saboteur profile (Positive Intelligence)
  • Transactional Analysis ego states: Parent, Adult, Child
  • Your Wise Inner Guide as the antidote to the critic
08
Inner Saboteurs & Archetypes
Positive IntelligenceJungianNLP
Your self-sabotage wears masks. This session names them, through Saboteur work and Jungian archetypes, so they lose their power to operate in the shadows.
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Going deeper into Positive Intelligence Saboteur patterns and connecting them to Jungian archetypes, helping you see how self-sabotage operates at different levels of identity. The NLP logical levels framework reveals where change needs to happen.

You'll explore
  • Inner Saboteurs in depth: your specific patterns
  • Jungian archetypes: creativity, leadership, dream archetypes
  • NLP Logical Levels: environment through to spirit
  • Your love language as a bridge to self-love
09
Self-Compassion & Love Languages
Self-CompassionPositive Psychology🎙️ Meditation
You know your love language for others. But what about for yourself? This session applies Kristin Neff's self-compassion framework alongside the five love languages, turned inward.
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Kristin Neff's three-component self-compassion model meets Chapman's Five Love Languages, applied to how you give love to yourself. You'll discover what self-love actually looks and feels like for you specifically, and build practices around that.

You'll explore
  • Self-kindness, common humanity, and mindfulness (Neff)
  • The five love languages applied to self-love
  • Self-care wheel: what truly nourishes you
  • Writing a letter of self-compassion
10
Values: Your Inner Compass
NLPACTPositive Psychology
When you know what you value, every decision becomes clearer. This session is about discovering your core values and learning to let them lead, not your fears, not other people's expectations.
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Using NLP values elicitation, ACT's valued-living framework, and positive psychology to discover, prioritise, and anchor your core personal values. Affirmations embed values as an identity anchor.

You'll explore
  • NLP values elicitation method
  • Valued living (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)
  • Values as a decision-making tool
  • How unmet values create internal conflict
11
Discovering Your Strengths
Positive PsychologyStrengths-BasedCBT
You have more strengths than you've claimed. This session moves from the obvious ones to the hidden ones, buried under self-doubt, waiting to be recognised.
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A deep strengths-discovery process that moves from your character strengths and talents to your hidden strengths uncovered through flow states, yearnings, and compliments you've dismissed. Inner resilience from past difficulties is also recognised as a strength.

You'll explore
  • Your character strengths: obvious and overlooked
  • Hidden strengths found in what makes you angry, what you yearn for, what puts you in flow
  • How past difficulties have built inner resilience
  • How to use your strengths as daily tools
12–13
Setting Healthy Boundaries
AssertivenessCommunicationCoaching
Boundaries aren't walls, they're the honest expression of what you value. These two sessions give you a full toolkit for recognising, communicating, and maintaining them without guilt.
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A two-session block with an exhaustive boundaries toolkit, with special focus on empaths and people-pleasers. You'll learn to say no with confidence, identify what you've been tolerating, recognise energy-draining dynamics, and assert your needs clearly.

You'll explore
  • Healthy vs. unhealthy boundaries: what they look and feel like
  • People-pleasing: why you do it and how to stop
  • Saying no with grace, not aggression
  • Tolerations: what you've been silently putting up with
14
Feminine & Masculine Energy
JungianEnergy Psychology🎙️ Meditation
You carry both. This session explores the interplay of feminine and masculine energies within you, and why balance between them changes everything from your inner life to your relationships.
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Drawing on Jungian polarity and integration theory, Taoist yin/yang, and esoteric principles, this session helps you identify which energy is dominant, how imbalance affects your wellbeing and relationships, and how to consciously activate and balance both energies.

You'll explore
  • Qualities of feminine vs. masculine energy, beyond gender
  • Divine feminine activation and what blocks it
  • Jungian Anima/Animus: polarities and integration of opposites
  • How depolarisation affects intimate relationships
15
Forgiveness & Self-Forgiveness
HypnotherapyInner Child🎙️ 3 Hypnoses
Forgiveness isn't for them. It's for you. The programme's most powerful release work, with three hypnosis sessions, ritual, Ho'oponopono, and inner child forgiveness journaling.
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The most modality-rich session in the programme, covering forgiveness from every angle: three hypnotherapy scripts, Ho'oponopono Hawaiian forgiveness practice, the SUEME framework, a letter to the aggressor, inner child forgiveness journaling, and a forgiveness ritual.

You'll explore
  • Forgiveness as self-liberation, not condoning what happened
  • Self-forgiveness as distinct from forgiving others
  • Ho'oponopono: I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.
  • Forgiveness ritual for embodied release
16
Gratitude Practices
Positive PsychologyMindfulness🎙️ Hypnosis
Gratitude isn't about pretending everything is fine. It's a practice of training your brain to notice what's real and good, and it changes the structure of thought over time.
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Establishing gratitude as a sustainable daily practice using Seligman's evidence-based Three Good Things method, heartfelt journaling, a 365-day challenge, and a gratitude hypnosis. Self-compassion and the capacity to receive goodness are woven throughout.

You'll explore
  • Gratitude as neuroplasticity: how it literally rewires the brain
  • Three Good Things / Three Blessings (Seligman method)
  • Heartfelt vs. performative gratitude
  • 365 Gratitude Challenge for sustained practice
17
EFT: Emotional Freedom Techniques
EFTEnergy PsychologySomatic🎙️ Meditation
Tapping is one of the most underused tools for emotional clearing. This session teaches you the full EFT protocol, including a dedicated self-love script and the "loving the unlovable" practice.
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Teaching EFT as a primary self-love and emotional clearing tool. You'll work through a full self-love tapping script and the "loving the unlovable" protocol, a practice for the parts of yourself you've been rejecting.

You'll explore
  • EFT tapping fundamentals: meridian points, setup statement, rounds
  • How tapping works with the nervous system
  • The self-love EFT script
  • "Loving the unlovable": tapping for self-rejection
18
Positive Realism & Growth Mindset
CBTPositive PsychologyEQ
Optimism without realism is wishful thinking. Realism without optimism is despair. This session builds the middle path, and gives you practical tools to stay there.
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Building a realistic but optimistic growth mindset using emotional intelligence assessment, resilience tools, trigger management, and somatic confidence. The 1% daily improvement principle and the emotional scale provide frameworks for sustainable upward momentum without toxic positivity.

You'll explore
  • Growth mindset vs. fixed mindset in real life, not just theory
  • Emotional intelligence (EQ): its five components
  • Emotional triggers: understanding and managing your specific ones
  • Power poses as somatic confidence (Amy Cuddy)
19
Self-Love Hypnosis
Hypnotherapy🎙️ Full Hypnosis Session
The most concentrated hypnotherapy session in the programme. What the conscious mind has been building, the subconscious now receives at a depth where it can actually stick.
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A dedicated full-session hypnotherapy experience focused entirely on self-love. The scripted induction guides you into deep hypnotic state where subconscious self-love programming is installed, complementing and deepening all the conscious work done in every session that came before.

You'll explore
  • Hypnotic induction for self-love
  • Subconscious reprogramming: bypassing the critical faculty
  • Post-hypnotic suggestion for self-acceptance
  • Deep relaxation as self-love in itself
20
Taking Inspired Action
CoachingPositive PsychologyVisualisation
Inspired action is different from forced action. This session bridges all the inner work into clear, aligned outer movement, toward a life that actually belongs to you.
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Moving from transformation to action, using the Perfect Day visualisation to clarify direction, 31 days of emotional healing journal prompts to support ongoing integration, and coaching questions and goal-setting frameworks to build momentum aligned with your authentic self.

You'll explore
  • Inspired action vs. forced action: the difference you can feel
  • Your Perfect Day: a direction-setting visualisation
  • Goal-setting connected to identity, not just outcomes
  • Emotional healing as the prerequisite for sustained action
21–23
Identity & Wheel of Life
Positive PsychologySomaticNLP🎙️ Body Scan
Three sessions of integration. By now, you've done deep work. This block is about consolidating it, turning insights into identity, and identity into life.
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A three-session integration block that consolidates all programme learning into a coherent, embodied new identity. Wheel of Life and Wheel of Stress assessments reveal your current balance. Radical self-love integration, sustainable self-care, and somatic practices anchor your new self in the body, not just the mind.

You'll explore
  • Identity consolidation after deep transformational work
  • Wheel of Life: an honest look at your current balance
  • Self-care as identity, not a nice-to-have
  • Habits as expressions of your new identity
24
Moving Forward: Your Next Chapter
Positive PsychologyCoaching
This is not the end. It's the beginning, of a life you choose from your values, your truth, and the version of yourself you've been becoming throughout this journey.
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The closing session, focused on integration, celebration, and the life ahead. The 5 to Thrive framework gives you a simple, memorable structure for sustaining your transformation. A comprehensive self-care toolkit ensures you leave with everything you need to keep showing up for yourself.

You'll explore
  • How far you've actually come: honouring the full journey
  • 5 to Thrive: a simple framework for sustainable flourishing
  • Self-care as a non-negotiable, not a reward
  • Moving forward with tools, not dependency

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S.E.L.F. L.O.V.E. is not a programme you complete and move on from. It is a transformation. Twenty-four sessions built entirely around you, and a Gentle Badass waiting on the other side. Places are limited.

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